i really hate rape culture

and it seems like deviantart is a fucking cesspool of rape culture.  from making tasteless jokes about it, to creepy fetish pictures, to all the fucking fangirls who fantasize about shotacon and yaoi rape... just what the fuck?!???
i've seen so many pathetic stamps and stupid memes about rape, so many offensive pictures of women getting raped (some even having the women get murdered and raped postmortem) and tons of fan-girls who buy into the whole "rape is love" trope when it comes to their yaoi.  And then you have the fangirls slapping "shota" on all of their 'uke" characters.  do you even know what shota is?  it's art of kiddie porn like seriously what the fuck?
and what pisses me off the most is that there have been people that i have really admired and respected here, like fantastic artists, who have left because of all the rape culture.  i've seen people politely try to explain to these scumbags how rape is offensive and triggering.  and how do these jerks react?! about the same as you can imagine they would.  by flipping the fuck out that anyone "can't take a joke", or that anyone can't respect their fetish, or whatever!  i've seen people get fucking nasty defending their rape culture and it makes me sick.  
it's not funny.  it's not cute.  it's not sexy.
i'm usually pretty chill but i just had some asshole harassing me by sending me messages saying things like "Love Rape, Live Rape" and pictures of people crying and trying to force men off of them.  i think it may have been some troll who has seen my gallery and knows that the topic is a sensitive one for me.  and so naturally that's how he reacts?!  i blocked him but seriously, fuck that guy.  
what is wrong with people that they are so desensitized to human emotion that they fantasize, draw, and get off to the idea of someone suffering in the most intimate of ways?  it seems psychotic to me.  
and there is so much damn rape culture on deviantart that i don't even search for it, it just pops up all over the damn place!!!  i don't want to disable my mature content settings because there are some really beautiful works of art here that are mature.  rape culture is anything but mature.  it's sick, stupid, and ignorant!
i wish deviantart had a fetish tag or something like that.  or maybe a trigger tag... or both?  that way people who are actually mature could enjoy art that is actually mature without having to worry about seeing a bunch of shit promoting/glorifying rape or any of that other weird shit deviantart loves so much like people shitting their diapers or freaking fucking shit like that. 
i mean seriously da what the fuck? i've only been here for a matter of months and all ready i can see why so many people leave this site.  because it's crawling with sickos.  
anyway i could probably rant about this all day but i'll stop now just for the fact that my brain feels like mush all ready.